Embracing Individuality is the Key

The concept of individuality is one that is extensive and complex, especially as it pertains to teens and adolescents. 

Individuality is defined as the characteristics that distinguish people from one another. In other words, our individuality is what makes society so diverse. However, there is a rising concern as to whether or not adolescents are effectively developing their sense of self, or if they are sacrificing themselves for the sake of “fitting in.”

Let’s start with the most obvious factor: social media. It’s common knowledge that social media plays a huge role in the development of teens these days, with benefits and drawbacks varying. Nevertheless, it is conclusive that the rise of viral social media trends has greatly influenced teens and is reaching younger children, as well. While this is not entirely a negative thing, it does lead to a real lack of diversity amongst the youth.

There has also been intense discussion as to whether or not teenagers feel as though they are obligated to fit in with the crowds in order to be liked. At such an influential stage of their life, many teens may feel uncomfortable with nonconformity. Of course, the answer differs from person to person. 

“I feel most teenagers feel they can be their most authentic selves at school. No one is stopping anyone from being themselves, but of course, not everyone will be comfortable with it,” Junior Vanessa Dreher said.

Even though some students can feel like they don’t have to conform, other students disagree with that opinion.

“There’s a lot of pressure to fit in, especially when everyone else seems to be doing it. However, being yourself is always important and the good people will support the real and best version of you,”Junior Brianna Limon said.

Though, there are many varying first-hand opinions from students, most can agree that being unique is, in fact, a good thing. So why doesn’t everyone want to stand out? The desire for conformity has played a major part in high school for decades.

“I don’t think the pressure to follow trends has changed from my time in high school to now. Even before social media was around, teenagers followed trends, that is a developmental stage for young adults to fit into their social groups,” Hospitality teacher Mr.Dudo said. So, in some cases, teens don’t always desire to fit in with the general crowd, but they wish to fit in with their own niche groups.

Ultimately, the overall question boils down to this: how do we, as a society, encourage developing teens to be themselves? The best thing to do is to continue to make school campuses an inclusive space for students with all interests. Encouraging people to be themselves and embrace their unique traits.